In the mouths of 100 people, there will be 100 versions of you. In the stories of others, there will always be various "you". Sometimes, you haven't done anything at all, yet you have already played countless versions in someone else's story. No matter how well you do, it is difficult to meet everyone's expectations; no matter how upright you stand, there will always be someone picking at your flaws. Many times, it's not that you've done something wrong, but rather that you've been casually placed into someone else's script, becoming a character that they can freely fabricate in their imagination. There are always some people who judge you solely based on first impressions; some, after seeing you just once, can't wait to label you in various ways. And there are others who impose their dark speculations about you, speaking as if they have personally experienced it.



So, you will hear various versions of "you": some say you are too assertive, but in fact, you are just expressing your thoughts; some say you do not fit in, but in fact, you just have a strong sense of boundaries and do not want to be easily offended; some say you are manipulative, but in fact, you are just quiet and want to protect your heart. You cannot control how others perceive you, but you can choose not to be swayed by these meaningless voices. There is no need to explain, nor to please others. Many misunderstandings cannot actually be clarified. The more you say, the more you seem insincere; the more eager you are to clarify, the more some people feel that you have a problem. Truly smart people have already learned to keep their mouths shut. The real you is not what others say, but what you gradually reveal through your own steps.

Other people's mouths are on their bodies, while your life is written in your own footsteps, living at your own rhythm. Time will see your silent efforts. In fact, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Those who understand you don’t need an explanation; those who don't understand you won't find it useful. In this world, there will always be people who misunderstand you, gossip about you, or even deny you. But please remember: there will be 100 versions of you in the mouths of 100 people. You should live as the person you envision yourself to be, undeterred by others' words, and not discouraged by others' biases. What you really should do is not to justify yourself to everyone but to live your own life well. As long as you have a clear conscience and remain humble, those voices will eventually be drowned out by time. #余币宝年化收益破24%# #Gate Launchpad IKA上线# #以太坊交易量飙升#
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