💜 The more you are yourself, the more you love to get angry.

Understanding: A person who is easily angered may not necessarily have issues with emotional intelligence; an important reason is that the more selfish a person is, the harder it is for them to empathize, which ultimately leads to them becoming more easily angered.

In the end, if the other party uses any language or behavior that makes one feel uncomfortable, they will immediately express it in a negative, accusatory, or complaining manner. Even if the other party speaks to you in a gentle tone, you will respond with an angry expression.

The other party wants to resolve the issue with you, but you keep getting stuck in negative emotions. In the end, your life will become such that your family will distance themselves from you because any little mistake they make will become a reason and excuse for your anger.

In short, a selfish person only cares about their own comfort, emotions, and gains and losses. Because they cannot empathize or understand others, they end up not communicating well. This is why many people inexplicably get angry every day, and even a small matter can make them furious.

In summary, anger is a person's selfishness, a punishment for themselves, because when a person is selfish and only considers themselves, they will feel that everything around them is against them. Therefore, to protect themselves, they become covered in thorns and armor. This manifests as becoming increasingly angry and also unwilling to deal with others.

Assignment: Have you ever experienced a change of perspective? For example, being angry about something, but as a result of changing your perspective, not only letting go of the negative emotions, but also gaining a better understanding of the other person.

You will find that when we step out of our ego and start to consider others, our negative emotions will naturally fade away.

If you have similar experiences, please use your own case to verify this pattern. #Gate Alpha积分撸40U#