A person's true growth begins when they stop complaining. If one always looks for reasons outside themselves, they will be stuck in the same place for ten years; if one engages in self-reflection, there will be new awakenings every day. Whether your life is bitter or sweet is not determined by fate, but by the accumulation of every thought, word, and action. Constantly blaming others is equivalent to giving up the right to change. Only those who understand self-examination can see themselves clearly in adversity and correct their direction in tranquility. Knowing others is intelligence, knowing oneself is wisdom. To see others clearly is smart, but to see oneself clearly is wisdom. When you truly calm down, let go of vanity, see reality clearly, treat others with tolerance, and remain steady with yourself, you are moving towards maturity. You don't need to seek help from gods or Buddhas; you are the sculptor of your own destiny. Starting today, be someone who looks inward. Cultivate a clear heart, speak warm words, and do practical things. Time will give you the most authentic answers.